May 20, 2012

Teaching Children the Value of Money

As parents we are faced with many responsibilities. As children, teenagers and young adults we are still in the learning process just as your parents are for learning never stops. Each of us needs to learn about the value of money. The best time for this to start is as a child. It seems that way too often many of us do not learn the value of money until we have maxed out one or more credit cards.

Too many times parents simply give their kids money to go to the movies or to buy the latest gizmo without the child understanding that the cash did not just get pulled out of thin air. Kids will learn quickly if they can get something for nothing. It is far better for the child to learn that money has to be earned.

Parents are not teaching their children how to earn money at a young age. They give the child a toy just to spoil them and wonder why the item is only played with for a couple of days and now remains in the corner of the room gathering dust. The child did not really want that toy. All they wanted was for somebody to buy them something. This cycle continues until the parents are willing to stop buying the stuff and start allowing the child to value what they are given.

Everyone knows that the things that you buy for yourself are those items that you will take good care of. Spending your own money that you have saved, then buying that treasured item, makes it that much more important to you. You know that you wanted that item and you will take care of it.

It should be no different for your children. Really, at any age when they start demanding things to make themselves happy, they should start working for that item. You and the child will find out very quickly just how bad they wanted that item.

There are numerous chores that a child can do around the house to raise money. Have older kids rake the leaves or cut the grass. Younger kids can straighten up the magazines or run out and get the paper in the driveway every day. The point is they should earn the right to purchase the item they covet so badly.

Kids should tell their parents that they are working towards buying something. Parents can then set monetary values on the different chores the child will do. If the child wants to buy a $50 video game, it does no one any good if they were to pay them $50 simply to sweep out the garage. The child should be made to work and save.

Ideally for older children it would be great if they were to find extra work to perform at a neighbor’s house. You will find that when kids really want something they will be constantly asking if there is anything they can do to make some money. Parents should view this as both a way to instill some financial values in their children as well as making the child a functioning member of the family.

Making the children more financially accountable will help free the parents from having to perform all the household chores. In turn, the children will understand the value of money and learn how to set and accomplish their goals.

Managing Money for Kids and Teens

As the credit crunch deepens and our pockets become lighter, numerous families will be looking for ways to stretch the pennies and for families with children, this maybe an appropriate time in which to educate them on the importance of money and how to handle it wisely.

Do not allow the fact that you have not made good financial decisions in the past, prevent you from teaching your children good financial management. You maybe going through a financial crisis right now and although it may not be pleasant, you will be learning valuable lessons about yourself and money while at the same time instilling those good lessons learned to your children.

Be honest with your children about the money situation in the household. Tell them as much as they can understand without overwhelming them. Children are more perceptive than you think and will appreciate not being kept in the dark. They are also more creative and perhaps can see ways of improving and increasing the family budget.

When it comes to giving allowances give according to age and family income. Talk about the need to save, spend and give. Encourage the children to pay themselves first and save a portion of their allowance. A portion should then be set aside for tithing or charity and a portion to spend.

Money earned is money valued and the best way to impress this upon children is to have them earn extra by doing non routine jobs around the home. Please note that the allowance is not payment or bribery for doing what is expected of them. Every child is required to take an active part in household duties simply because they are part of the family and shouldn’t presume payment for everything they do.

Involve the children in meetings regarding finances. Set a financial goal and find ways of achieving it. Say for example the annual holiday, decide where you would like to go as a family and devise ways of funding this. Give each child responsibility for looking into the cost of transport, flights, accommodation, food etc. They may offer suggestions or even decide to take on a job. Help them draw up a list of suitable jobs they can do. Mowing lawns, washing cars, a paper route and babysitting are all jobs that will earn them a few coins and who knows what might spark the entrepreneurial giant within them. Many millionaires started out this way and your child could well be one of them.

Once they start earning open a bank account or savings account for them. Take them shopping with you and permit them to buy what they want with their own money. Children feel powerful once they have their own money. They will soon come to realize that money doesn’t grow on trees and may even display a certain amount of thriftiness in relation to this.

Play money games with them such as monopoly and take them grocery shopping to see how and what you buy. Only by imparting a healthy respect for money early on in life can they avoid the frivolous ‘spend now and pay later’ attitude that has become so prevalent in society today.